Discuss your ideas, fantasies and desires openly and clearly, let people know what you do and do not like, what things you would like to try, and what things you do not want to try (your limits). Try to include pictures of yourself or at least part of your body, pictures always go a long way on any dating site. In BDSM you want to always be who you want to be, not who someone else wants you to be. Bdsm allows you to escape from the every day life the outside world and lets you be whoever you want to be, and do the things you want to do.
These methods are all effective in reducing vaginal looseness. Some, of course, work better and faster than others. Diets and exercises designed for this specific purpose have long-lasting effects, but may take a long time to achieve results. For the vagina to maintain continence, these muscle groups must be able to relax and contract to allow for bowel movements, urination, sexual intercourse, and giving birth. There are tons of natural techniques to make your vag tighter.